Abstract
The therapeutic relationship can be difficult to navigate particularly
when communication is projected through the unsaid or unconscious
processes in the room. The therapist is tasked with being able to detect
the unsaid through implicit or explicit countertransference. How the
therapist deciphers the communication and works with the experienced
countertransference impacts on the therapy. The therapy can either
flourish or terminate prematurely. In presenting a case study of such an
experience, I explore countertransference, enactment and the therapeutic
relationship with a patient who struggled to engage with her own needs. I
also explore my struggle of not being able to communicate my
understanding of her need to her.